{"id":108886,"date":"2025-01-28T15:02:55","date_gmt":"2025-01-28T15:02:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chezaspin.com\/blog\/index.php\/2025\/01\/28\/im-not-submissive-but-shakib-knows-how-to-put-me-in-my-place-zari\/"},"modified":"2025-01-28T15:02:55","modified_gmt":"2025-01-28T15:02:55","slug":"im-not-submissive-but-shakib-knows-how-to-put-me-in-my-place-zari","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chezaspin.com\/blog\/im-not-submissive-but-shakib-knows-how-to-put-me-in-my-place-zari\/","title":{"rendered":"I\u2019m not submissive, but Shakib knows how to put me in my place \u2013 Zari"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ugandan socialite and reality TV star Zari Hassan, 44, has opened up about why she didn&#8217;t take long to make up her mind to marry her young husband, Shakib Lutaaya Chum, 32, after just one year of dating.<br \/>\nBefore meeting Shakib, Zari had been in a romantic relationship for four years with Bongo Flava star singer Diamond Platnumz. Although there was talk of tying the knot at some point in their relationship, Zari remained reluctant.<br \/>\nBut that wasn&#8217;t the case with her husband, Shakib. They met in 2022 and decided to marry a year later under the Islamic teachings.<br \/>\n&#8220;Why I decided to make it halal with Shakib (out of all the men I have been with) is because he is a very nice guy. He is someone who makes me feel at home when I am with him. Home is not a building, it&#8217;s where you find peace and that&#8217;s what Shakib is.&#8221;\u00a0 Zari recently shared this while in Kenya to renew her brand ambassadorship deal with Samsung Electronics.<br \/>\nJust a few months after their wedding, their marriage seemed to be going downhill as the couple got into some nasty public spats on social media that made people question their marriage.<br \/>\nOne incident occurred last year, when Zari publicly criticized her husband, accusing him of being overly insecure.<br \/>\nThe issue arose after Diamond, with whom Zari has two children, made an unannounced visit to her daughter&#8217;s birthday party in South Africa.<br \/>\nThe party, hosted by Zari, was an extravagant all-white affair at her luxurious Pretoria home to celebrate her daughter Tiffah&#8217;s special day.<br \/>\nHowever, the event took a turn when Shakib expressed his frustration over Diamond&#8217;s surprise appearance.<br \/>\nShakib questioned why he wasn&#8217;t informed that Diamond would be attending the party and suggested that Zari might still be in love with him, something the socialite vehemently denied.<br \/>\n&#8220;I know I got my shenanigans but I am sure he is learning how to put up with them. Shakib leads, he knows how to tone me down, calm me down. You know I am very stubborn and I am also not very submissive but Shakib kind of knows how to put me in my place. He is a very calm guy, so he uses that to his advantage. So when I\u00a0 felt that when we started dating, I felt somehow okay, I needed a man like him and so I felt safe to marry him.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ugandan socialite and reality TV star Zari Hassan, 44, has opened up about why she didn&#8217;t take long to make up her mind to marry her young husband, Shakib Lutaaya Chum, 32, after just one year of dating. Before meeting Shakib, Zari had been in a romantic relationship for four years with Bongo Flava star [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":0,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-108886","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","entry"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/chezaspin.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/108886","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/chezaspin.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/chezaspin.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chezaspin.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=108886"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/chezaspin.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/108886\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/chezaspin.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=108886"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chezaspin.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=108886"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chezaspin.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=108886"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}