{"id":97009,"date":"2024-09-27T13:03:43","date_gmt":"2024-09-27T13:03:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chezaspin.com\/blog\/index.php\/2024\/09\/27\/men-find-me-intimidating-but-im-a-soft-girl-maandy\/"},"modified":"2024-09-27T13:03:43","modified_gmt":"2024-09-27T13:03:43","slug":"men-find-me-intimidating-but-im-a-soft-girl-maandy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chezaspin.com\/blog\/men-find-me-intimidating-but-im-a-soft-girl-maandy\/","title":{"rendered":"Men find me intimidating, but I\u2019m a soft girl \u2013 Maandy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Maandy&#8217;s rising star hasn&#8217;t shone on her dating front owing to public perception.<br \/>\nHer serious character was often misinterpreted as hostility, creating a barrier between her and potential romantic interests.<br \/>\n&#8220;I unintentionally intimidated people, men, to be precise. But I am a soft girl&#8221; she says reflecting on the challenges of dating in the spotlight.<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s for this reason that Maandy says she has had her stay single for a very long time because a lot of men shy away from hitting on her.<\/p>\n<p>However, over time Maandy learned to balance her strong persona with vulnerability, using her music as a bridge to express her softer side.<br \/>\nRecently, Maandy addressed swirling rumors about her relationship with fellow musician Breeder LW. During a candid Instagram Q&amp;A, she firmly denied any romantic involvement with Breeder, describing their decade-long friendship as supportive but platonic.<br \/>\nWith a touch of humor, Maandy referenced Breeder&#8217;s reputation as a &#8216;ladies&#8217; man&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>Speaking of her music journey, Maandy reveals she began her music career as a DJ before becoming a rapper. Maandy alias Kabaya&#8217;s story began in the vibrant neighborhoods of Dagoretti, where she split her time between Waithaka and Ngong.<br \/>\n&#8220;I grew up in between Waithaka and Ngong, but most of my friends were from Ngong,&#8221; she shared.<\/p>\n<p>Her foray into the music scene started early, with Kabaya taking on the role of entertainment organizer in high school.\u00a0 Post-high school, Kabaya&#8217;s passion for music led her to DJing.<br \/>\n&#8220;I wanted to do something in entertainment, and DJing just made sense,&#8221; she explained. Her skills quickly earned her a reputation, landing her a coveted residency while still a student.<br \/>\n&#8220;I used to play every Saturday as a student, earning Sh 35,000 a month was good,&#8221; Kabaya reminisced.<br \/>\nHowever, fate had other plans. During a practice session at a studio, producer Jay Blink noticed something special in Kabaya&#8217;s freestyling.<br \/>\n&#8220;He stopped the music and looked at me and said, &#8216;You&#8217;re doing the wrong thing. You have to rap,'&#8221; she recounted.<br \/>\nInitially hesitant, Kabaya&#8217;s natural flow and rhythm were undeniable. This pivotal moment marked the beginning of her transformation from DJ to rapper.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Maandy&#8217;s rising star hasn&#8217;t shone on her dating front owing to public perception. Her serious character was often misinterpreted as hostility, creating a barrier between her and potential romantic interests. &#8220;I unintentionally intimidated people, men, to be precise. But I am a soft girl&#8221; she says reflecting on the challenges of dating in the spotlight. [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":0,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-97009","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","entry"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/chezaspin.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/97009","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/chezaspin.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/chezaspin.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chezaspin.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=97009"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/chezaspin.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/97009\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/chezaspin.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=97009"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chezaspin.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=97009"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chezaspin.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=97009"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}