{"id":97074,"date":"2024-09-27T16:04:16","date_gmt":"2024-09-27T16:04:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chezaspin.com\/blog\/index.php\/2024\/09\/27\/trisha-khalid-on-womens-hatred-of-her-success\/"},"modified":"2024-09-27T16:04:16","modified_gmt":"2024-09-27T16:04:16","slug":"trisha-khalid-on-womens-hatred-of-her-success","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chezaspin.com\/blog\/trisha-khalid-on-womens-hatred-of-her-success\/","title":{"rendered":"Trisha Khalid on women\u2019s hatred of her success"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>TV actress and content creator Trisha Khalid says she doesn&#8217;t understand why she gets so much hate and negativity from other women because of her success.<br \/>\nThe 29-year-old recently relocated to Nairobi from Mombasa to pursue more opportunities in life. She says, that even though she has had to work so hard to make a name for herself, many people choose to ignore her efforts and instead attribute her success to a &#8216;mubaba&#8217; sponsor.<br \/>\n&#8220;It&#8217;s funny and sad that most of the negative comments I get are from women. They don&#8217;t see the part where you work hard. They don&#8217;t see the part where I&#8217;m an actress and the part where I&#8217;m a businesswoman.&#8221; She laments.<\/p>\n<p>Trisha claims that many have no idea of the ups and downs she has gone through to get to where she is today.<br \/>\n&#8220;Before I moved to Nairobi, I used to go to Kongowea market in Mombasa, which is like Gikomba market. I would buy <em>mitumba<\/em> clothes and sell them. Many times I would post these clothes online. I also used to go live and sell them for as little as Sh800. I would also travel to Uganda and buy bags to sell. I would order shoes from China to sell. Yet people did not want to see all that hustle.&#8221; Trisha further decries.<\/p>\n<p>The bubbly actress adds that it breaks her heart every time she sees other women shower her with so much negativity instead of support.<br \/>\n&#8220;I don&#8217;t understand why people have this mentality that every woman who is doing better in life, is bankrolled by some rich man. I don&#8217;t know why they never see it as her effort, even when it is. Besides, my life isn&#8217;t even luxurious, it&#8217;s okay, but still, people think I&#8217;m bankrolled.&#8221; Ms Khalid avers.<\/p>\n<p>She does admit though to having a supportive boyfriend, but that does not mean her efforts should be deflated.<br \/>\n&#8220;As much as someone has a supportive partner, it doesn&#8217;t mean that the man takes care of all her needs. It&#8217;s only fair that people recognize my efforts and my hustle. It&#8217;s not like I sit around and wait for my partner to do things for me. I work hard too. I&#8217;m always at the set at 6:30 in the morning. Why would I bother getting up so early to go to work if I was dependent on a man? Yes, I have a supportive partner, but I also put in the shift,&#8221; Ms Khalid insists.<\/p>\n<p>Trisha, however, says she is no longer bothered by the &#8216;mubaba&#8217; comments.<br \/>\n&#8220;Anyway, if that&#8217;s the mentality people have about me, it&#8217;s okay, if anything there are a lot of<em> wababas<\/em> out there, those who keep hating, why can&#8217;t they also try to find one and see how it goes&#8221;.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>TV actress and content creator Trisha Khalid says she doesn&#8217;t understand why she gets so much hate and negativity from other women because of her success. The 29-year-old recently relocated to Nairobi from Mombasa to pursue more opportunities in life. 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